a freakie cubs journey in the lifestyle

I am sure it is a crippling moment of pain, or a few, which turn people into
dominants and submissives. This sort of love does not come from a mind that has
not suffered. BDSM is a way to console that initial suffering through
reactionary suffering, it almost negates itself for a while. A bound submissive
can think "Yes, I really am loved. She wants me." while the dominant thinks "He
must love me, otherwise why would he be suffering so?" (The obvious answer is
"because you tied him up and didn't let him escape." But WHATEVER.)

~Mean Mommy~

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